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Walking around Paris on my own with nowhere to be at any particular time enlightened me with unexpected imperturbability.  I moved out here to be in the country.  Two thousand five hundred scenic pieces of trees and sky.  Yet, I had no problems getting back to “go mode” in the city most people think of when you say you’re moving to France.   I spent about thirty minutes each evening by The Head, a large concrete head that is no doubt famous, which sits next to what was once thought by me to be Notre Dame.  It actually sits next to something that looks like Notre Dame like many other Notre Dame-like churches around Paris.  I realized later that Notre Dame itself is the Notre Damiest of them all.  I’m sure I’ll be enlightened as to its name in the imminent future.  By the church that isn’t Notre Dame, were two dudes playing jazz.  An upright bass player and a guitar man with an amp.  Those guys had a wonderful time playing or practicing their work while a gaggle of tired tourist sat in the park resting their feet as dusk falls.  The metro riders briskly walked past The Head to get to Châtelet, the metro stop with many options.  After listening to the jazzmen for a while, I’d pack up my book and pop on the iPod.  The musical selection of choice for walking around Paris is Philip Glass, Koyaanisqatsi.  It’s like living your own music video.  Nameless faces, in a rush to get somewhere important, couples giggling flirtatiously over drinks, traffic stopping and going and stopping and going.  An entire city there to entertain you as you walk from The Head to get a bite to eat.  After being in the country for six months where one can walk from home to park and see nothing more than an old mare and a barking dog, the city becomes more surreal than this city girl remembers.

But this isn’t what I really wanted to address.  What I saw in Paris was a lot of art.  A pain au chocolat cannot be thrown anywhere in Paris without hitting some art.  It’s everywhere.  No museum pass required.  I’m usually drawn to paintings over the rest, but after a visit to the garden at the Rodin museum (for a Euro!) I began to enjoy sculptures much more.  And that Rodin was pretty good at that stuff.  The curves, the positions, the sensuous movement emoting from a still object, the … hold on .. is that pigeon poop?  Was bird feces part of Rodin’s vision?  The guy works hard on this beautiful work and a bird poops on it.  And then it was everywhere.  No statue could be viewed by me without searching for the poop.  It became Where’s Waldo, the bird dung edition.   At last I found a statue untarnished by any foul movement.   Then, there it was, carrying on in the garden of Rodin as though no one could see them, but we could.  Sure not everyone acknowledged it.  Others may have looked passed it, but they were there, doing it and showed no compunction.   Naturally I took a photo, how could I not? Environmental players dancing on the art of yesteryear creating a momentary Farside Cartoon of today crossed my path and I had to shoot.

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I’ve read many books about people moving to France enjoying the lifestyles, the culture, the language and the food. Great books. I’m enjoying the lifestyle, the culture, the language and the food. I started to blog about the differences. Hey, look at all the cheese you can buy, but where’s the orange cheese? Or blogging about the cool things they have here.  Diesel diesel everywhere! Quickly, I found myself duplicating a common theme. Yes, it’s great here and my experience is no different in that respect. But the real question is why the heck did I give up my high-status shoot-me-an-email High-Tech Career with power meetings and status updates. Why leave my fast, yellow Porsche out in the cold rubbing seat to bum with a new daddy. My newly remodeled house with fancy water tap that turns on in the presence of your soapy hands and a range that turns up to eleven with 360XBTUs. I personally planted almost every plant in that yard. Why leave a beautiful, though cold, city that has everything I could possibly need. Including more than three private kindergartens, if selected, that will extract seventeen thousand US dollars from me to usefully educate my child. I was settled in Seattle so what’s with the big move?  Why France?

The last post I wrote on this blog was about the market and the amazing produce. Then, I stopped. Nothing. What happened in May? How about June and July? Was I around in August? September, I don’t remember. October is here, I’m here ready to get on with writing something , anything about what is going on over here after uprooting my family from the prototypical path laid out before us. The American Dream. What was my American Dream lacking? Did moving to France have anything to do with America? I don’t think I moved the family to France to get away, but rather to discover. Right now, here in October, I can’t articulate why, but I think I’m on to something.

I’m not knocking the American Dream or maybe I am.  As George Carlin put it, “it’s the American Dream ’cause you have to be asleep to believe it.”  Or as James Truslow Adams, the coiner of the phrase (yes, I wikipedia-ed American Dream so there) explains, “The American Dream is that dream of a land in which life should be better and richer and fuller for everyone …” mumble mumble European upper class “It is not a dream of motor cars and high wages merely, but a dream of social order in which each man and each woman shall be able to attain to the fullest stature of which they are innately capable, and be recognized by others for what they are, regardless of the fortuitous circumstances of birth or position.”  I got to a point (or a pointless), I think, where it really was about motor cars and high wages where the dream of social order and innate capability where put on the back burner, low-pri, minimal ROI.  People in America ask “What do you do?”  In the past five months, people ask me “How’s it going?”  ça va? ça va.

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The Samatan market is on Monday. It’s almost always sunny and warm with lots of people milling about talking while they shop. You can buy live chickens and farm animals in the early morning. Up until the lunch siren blows, you can get just about everything you need somewhere in the web of stalls. Today we needed a few things for some cabbage soup Brent is going to make for dinner. The strawberries from Spain are still coming in and are as delicious as they look. The French strawberries are selling as well, but don’t look ready yet for my tastes. We came across a bold looking tomato which had to come home with us based on looks alone. To go with it, we picked up some lettuce. Three to choose from, a bib, a frilly one and the one I bought which looks sort of soft and green. On our way out we hoped to pick up a baguette and to our surprise, we totally missed it baguette window. All shops were out. Coming back from my third attempt to pick up some bread to go with the fresh chevre I had in my shopping bag, Brent noticed a man in a truck unloading steamy, hot flutes [one notch bigger than baguette] to the bread lady stall. I pushed Minty in her stroller over there and quickly picked up a couple. By the time I had the bread in hand, they had sold out again. As we walked up to the car to ready ourselves for lunch, we passed two dudes with a large vat of wine and a hose. I’ve always wanted to buy wine off the back of a truck and finally seized my opportunity. We picked up some red. While we paid, guy number two hosed some rouge into a brown plastic jug for us to carry it away in. It was a good day at the market.

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Everyday when Lucy and Otto get home from school, I ask them what they had for lunch.  In Southwest France, the kids take a wonderful amount of time for lunch.  They spend at least an hour and a half eating lunch followed by play.  In Seattle, Lucy had something on the order of five minutes to eat by the time she and her class sat down.  Her lunch was packed from home and she rarely had time to eat anything other than the nutbar.  The French school lunch was a welcome change to a mid-day meal.  Her meals usually start with a salad with vinaigrette or some small bits of carrots and chicken.  Followed by some sort of hot meal that is then followed by dessert.  Fresh fruit and a milk-like yogurt is generally dessert.  On this day when I asked Lucy what she had for lunch, she excitedly said she had a, “GIANT CHICKEN NUGGET!”  Of which she totally loved.  Doubting her nugget reports, I asked for some more detail.  Somehow chicken nuggets seemed to go against the previous lunches.  I asked her if the nugget had something inside it, say ham and cheese?  She happily replied with a yes.  And that’s how Lucy learned about Cordon bleu.


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15Mar09

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Clementine classifies bread with other recyclable items like paper and cardboard. When given a Pain au chocolate (chocolate cro-sant) she immediately unwraps the outside to remove the line of chocolate, otherwise known as the “choclectomy”. This was going great for her until we picked up some pastries that were hot out of the oven. Little Mignon, as the ladies refer to her, had to suck it up and eat the hot gooey mess.


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While driving the diesel Kangoo, I’ve stopped for a pittering of puppies, a farm dog and a dog who decided he wanted to watch the sun set while sitting on the fast country road. Brent also stopped for a dog and was told off by a local as to avoid the dog nipping at the car. Apparently you keep driving and dogs will move. I suppose when I gain that sort of confidence, I’ll be speaking more French and able to pick up some meat at the local abattoir without a shrug and a giggle with respect to how incompetent I am speaking French. Je suis Americain!


Fer Reals

14Mar09

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I’ve officially changed my watch and computer to France time. Now it’s fer reals. Today we’re still getting through jet lag … still. For the first time since Thursday all three children were asleep at the same time, which lasted for approximately twenty minutes but may have actually been two hours. Minty is boldly testing the physics of glassware and tile floors. Experiment 2b has been the most spectacular involving a glass plate thrown as though it were a Frisbee. Result: amazing crash and another dish gone. Plastic plates are on the agenda for tomorrow. As a side note, Minty has tuned her tantrums to the tile by taking her Martha Graham side slide to the ground ending with head on the ground and belly exposed and replacing it with a more contemporary Jazz move that ends in sort of a crunch as to avoid concussion. Otto and Lucy played in the courtyard play area all day. They came in cold, tired and dirty; a total success for children under ten. They ran and ran and ran out there running from swing to digger (yes a REAL digger!!!) to lilac bush. Luke and Leia were finding all sorts of adventure to get lost in. Meanwhile I’m working out the washer and trying to figure out how to dry clothes in a fairly damp building in the freezing cold. My new friend the space heater is helping me along. Note to self, don’t leave the laundry overnight in the outside washer in negative seven centigrade or you will wait ‘til noon for the laundry cube to be hangable.

… and YES, Brent got all the bags in the Kangoo. It took some creative “napsack” thinking, but he did it. Of course, the children had to carry bags on their laps (Minty LOVED that) and the front passenger had to get in first followed by grabbing the final piece of luggage to carry on their lap. It was cramped, but we made it to the house. The minute the car started, all three children were sound asleep.


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All the details leading up to the flight to Toulouse came fast and were not totally sorted out before we left.  We tried to get the important things completed.  Get the house ready for selling, cancel our mobile phones, send off our taxes, move all of our crap to Kevin’s house, get the two children with small infections treated at the doctor … yadda yadda yadda and with a mound of check-in luggage, carry-on bags for all, the cat and a bag of Cadbury Mini-Eggs we were on our way.  The flight went as easy as you could ask for.  After the kids were in their seats headed towards inflight vegetable-hood with the little TV screen in each seat, a gorgeous French flight attendant is curious if I’d like an aperitif, say a glass of Champagne.  From there, the flight was smoothly.

Security, however, was a different matter.  We decided to postpone shipping our belongings until we knew what we needed, where we would end up long term and how long we actually would stay in France.  That means, what we take with us would have to keep us going until we figure out our long-term plan.  Handling that sort of baggage with three young kids and one cat was hard enough when we were all rested.  We had to disrobe, unpack and go through airport security three times.  Each time with increasing tears and sweat.  It was all going fine at Paris security despite Mommy and Daddy zombie leading three little baby zombies through.  It was when Lamby, Minty’s cuddle animal, was clutched from her arms and tossed on the conveyer belt leading to its ultimate doom that the real crying began.  And of course, Minty’s crying hurt Otto’s ears which made him cry thus leaving out Lucy who decided to cry as well to truly set the commotion level in Paris to eleven.  There we were our luggage eviscerated, children crying, the cat out of the bag; a spectacle familiar to Paris security yet still worth grabbing a buddy and gawking at.   After our short hop to Toulouse, we collected all of our luggage which when loaded onto three carts to maneuver with three children who refuse to walk and two rollie bags opened up a from-here-to-there challenge to arrive at the grumpy Renault man who was not impressed that we were three hours late.  But we made it.  We made it in one piece, with all of our bags and a scared but happy cat.  Lucy’s opening comment on French soil was, “Mommy! It smells like baguette!!”  Next step, can Brent fit the luggage and family into a teeny, weeny European car?  Stay tuned …


10Feb09

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I’m running around like crazy in the same clothes I’ve worn and slept in for two days. Some dude downtown said I looked hot and I think I snorted out loud. Our house goes up for sale next weekend and my cat decided this would be an excellent opportunity to start pissing on the floor. I learned this, of course while leaving the doctor who’s inspecting Minty’s infected toe.   And I’m three days late on my period. And I’m very thankful for all the help my friends near and far have been pitching in. I’m still giggling at Mario’s true Hollywood Story. But hey, Otto’s three-times-a-day eardrops are almost done.  And poor Kevin’s house has been Curtised.


So Much Shtuff

26Jan09

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Originally we were set to ship all of our beloved belongings off to France and wait for it to arrive when we got there. This plan seemed great until the first moving quote was received. Twelve to thirteen thousand for door to door. Eek. I’m sure I could cut it down to at least nine thousand ideally less, but that would require a heck of a lot of work. I ran a couple other shipping-stuff- to-France requests and it all started to feel like planning a wedding where the business brings out the “other” book because it’s your “special day” and everything should be absolutely “perfect”. All I needed was to put crap in a box, put that box in a container, the container on a ship that floats across the sea then pops on a truck that drives to my house where I grab my box of crap and stick it in my house. It all seemed so simple, but incredibly priced. I then started to question my motives. Why do I have all this crap? Of all this stuff, what do I actually need? If we’re staying but a couple years, can I live without all this? What I really want to do is show up in France with my family, some clothes and the cat. Yet I find it so difficult to part with my long sought after Lego phone and my beautiful Eames Lounge chair. If I get rid of this stuff, will I miss it and re-buy it? I probably wouldn’t because it’d be too expensive. So, that’s when I looked into storage. Storage is a WAY cheaper option and also buys you time to figure out what to do with your life’s accumulation. It then becomes a lot easier to sift through all the stuff and ask yourself if you’d re-buy this if tossed and how much would that be? Cute, Italian barstools, totally re-buy, but super expensive means KEEP. Cute Danish bookshelves in okay condition, eh, they’re everywhere and fairly priced, SELL. Sturdy storage containers in fine condition, these things are typically suited to the current house and easily replaced, DONATE. Everything else, TOSS. I wish I were brave enough to get rid of everything, but I’m not that strong. It turns out I’m quite attached to some furniture, some books, my bras and my cat.